Have you ever found yourself triggered by someone? And, felt like you either had to nod along to avoid conflict or go full courtroom defense mode? Well, what if there was something else possible?

Welcome to the freedom of allowance.

🔹 What It Is and Isn’t:
Allowance is not about rolling over and letting people walk all over you. It’s also not agreeing with everything just to keep the peace. It’s seeing every opinion, action, and situation as just an interesting point of view—without making it personal.

Think of it this way: imagine someone throws a bucket of mud at you. Allowance is the difference between simply standing there, letting it slop all over you or angrily telling them off for ruining your day, versus stepping aside and watching the mud sail on by and hit the ground.

🔹 How to be in Allowance:
Allowance starts with asking yourself one simple question: “What if this was just an interesting point of view?” Instead of reacting, defending, or internalizing someone else’s judgment or action, pause and check in. Are you making their perspective more valuable than your own? 

When you realize that not everything requires your energy, you free yourself from unnecessary stress, drama, and emotional weight that was never yours to carry in the first place.

💡 Relationship Shift: Allowance frees you from taking things personally. It’s like emotional Teflon, nothing sticks. 🙌
 

💌 Stay tuned—your next email is about Gratitude: The Secret Sauce That Makes Relationships Thrive.