Have you ever tried to fit yourself into a role in a relationship? It’s kind of like fitting yourself into the jeans you wore when you were 13. Not comfortable, and definitely not necessary.

That’s where honor comes in.

🔹 What It Is and Isn’t:
Honor is treating yourself and others with regard, not judgment. It’s NOT about sacrificing yourself to make someone else happy, or demanding others be different to make you comfortable. It’s giving yourself (and them) the space to know who they are and be it, without needing to “fix” anything.

In relationships, honor means seeing the beauty in who someone IS, not who you want them to be. And it starts with you.

🔹 How to Be Honoring:
Honor starts with being honest about what truly works for you, without guilt or apology. (Yes, you can have relationship preferences, communicate them, and still be kind!) It’s about stopping the cycle of making yourself wrong for what you desire or require to thrive. And most importantly, it’s about acknowledging and respecting others for who they ARE, not who you think they should be.

💡 Relationship Shift:
When you honor yourself, you naturally invite others to do the same. And suddenly, relationships become a whole lot lighter and freer, no more suffocating expectations, just mutual respect and actual choice.

 

💌 Stay tuned—your next email is about Trust: The Freedom to Know, Not Control.