Drop The Act: Relationships Without The Performance


A Valentine's Pop-Up Call on the value of Vulnerability in Relationships.
Disclaimer: You don't need a valentine to join this call!

So many of us learned that we had to be impressive… attractive… agreeable… “easy”… desirable. And somewhere along the way, we started editing ourselves in relationships without even noticing.

This live Valentine’s pop-up with Sarah is an invitation to drop the act and reconnect with the part of you that doesn’t need a script.

Have you ever caught yourself trying to say the “right” thing instead of what's true for you? Or shaping yourself to be chosen, liked, or approved of?

What if vulnerability wasn’t weakness… but the doorway to the kind of connection you’ve actually been asking for?

In this call, you’re invited to explore:

  • Where you might be performing instead of showing up as you.

  • The subtle ways we hide in dating and partnerships

  • How vulnerability with yourself changes every relationship

  • What becomes possible when you stop trying to be lovable and start being you

This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about discovering the gift that true vulnerability can be for you and with others.

Whether you’re single, partnered, healing from heartbreak, or simply curious about creating deeper intimacy with yourself and others, this space is for you. You don’t need a Valentine. You just need a willingness to show up… as you.

Sometimes one vulnerable conversation opens doors you didn’t even know you’d closed.

📦 What's Included?

  • 💻 1 Interactive Live call
  • ⏯️ Replay included
  • 🌎 Open to all

Join over 15,000 people who’ve already said yes to these tools - and started creating life on their terms. Now it’s your turn!


🗓️ Schedule

February 13 @ 12 PM PST (Your local time)


🎧 Languages Available

  • English
  • Spanish

Translation in other languages may be available upon request. If you would like to request another language, please fill out this form. If we have enough people requesting it, we’ll look into adding translators and let you know! Please note we require 3 days' notice to potentially line up translation for a call.


🎥 Recordings

Please note that the class recordings will be sent to you via email, and you will be able to download them from our box link.

What people have been saying...

I used to resist Sarah’s classes because deep down, I knew she would see the parts of me I was hiding from. When I finally chose to show up, I found a space of kindness and allowance that melted so many walls. My whole world feels lighter.

- Sofia L.

“I thought I needed more tools to ‘fix’ my relationship. Turns out, I just needed to receive me. Sarah has this way of making it all lighter, even the stuff you swore was too heavy. Suddenly, everything starts to change, almost without effort.”

- Jasmin F.

I thought I’d already done it all (therapy, workshops, self-development), but this space with Sarah was different. She doesn’t give you answers; she opens doors to the version of you that already knows. And from there, everything in my relationships started to soften.

- Mona D.