Have you ever tried to get someone to change? Like, maybe if you just explain it one more time, they’ll finally get it? 👀 Yeah… how’s that working out?

Let me introduce you to trust - it’s not what you think!

🔹 What It Is and Isn’t:
Trust in relationships is not about hoping someone will change, it’s about knowing they will be exactly who they are. If your partner has never remembered an anniversary, trust that they won’t. If your bestie always cancels plans last-minute, trust that she will. It’s not about making them wrong, it’s about recognizing what is so you can choose with clarity.

But here’s the kicker: Trust isn’t just about others. It’s about YOU too. Do you trust yourself to know what’s true for you, even when the world tells you otherwise?

🔹 How to Trust:
Trust starts with dropping the expectations that people will change and instead recognizing them for who they are. When someone shows you their true nature, believe them, without judgment, just awareness. 

Trusting yourself is just as vital; if something feels off, honor that inner knowing. Instead of hoping someone will be different, ask yourself, “Do I actually desire this in my life?” When you shift from wishful thinking to empowered choosing, your relationships transform.

💡 Relationship Shift:
Trust isn’t about control, fixing, or wishing. It’s about knowing—so you can choose what works for you and stop getting tripped up by unmet expectations. And when you trust you, you stop looking outside yourself for permission.

💌 Stay tuned—your next email is about Allowance: Letting Go Without Losing Yourself.