
šHello, again!
Weāve made it to our final tool for this series - letās talk about letting people in.
You meet someone amazing. They make you laugh, they get your quirks, they feel different in the best way. Your heart starts to open, but instead of leaning in⦠you start pulling away.
What if I care too much?
What if they donāt feel the same?
What if I get hurt?
So, do you:
š A) Keep them at armās length to āstay in control.ā
š B) Let them in just enough but keep your true feelings locked away.
š C) Recognize the fear, but choose to stay open and allow yourself to receive?
Yes, weāve entered the realm of vulnerability.
š Hereās the thing about VULNERABILITY: Itās not about spilling your heart out to everyone. Itās about allowing yourself to be fully seenāwithout walls, without proving, without control.
Most of us were taught that keeping our guard up is protection. But what if those walls donāt actually keep you safe⦠they just keep you separate?
Vulnerability is what allows true connection to exist. And the more you let yourself be, the more you actually receiveāfrom others, from life, from YOU.
So, where in your relationships are you resisting vulnerability, thinking it will keep you safe?
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When you let yourself be seen, life can finally meet you where you are.
š We did it! Weāve tasted the 5 Elements of Intimacyābut weāre not done yet.
Stay tuned for one final email that brings it all together. š
With gratitude and possibility,
