💌Hello, again!

Have you ever found yourself being bombarded with unsolicited opinions?

You’re at a family gathering, happily enjoying your food, when someone—an aunt, a parent, maybe even a sibling—drops that comment:

"So… when are you finally settling down?"
"Are you still doing that job? I thought you’d have a ‘real’ career by now."
"You know, if you just tried [insert unsolicited advice], your life would be so much easier!"

You feel the heat rise. You could clap back, shut down, or spend the rest of the night spiraling.

So, what do you do?

💭 A) Defend yourself and explain why your life choices are actually great.
💭 B) Stay quiet, but let it simmer inside you for hours.
💭 C) Take a breath and think, “Interesting point of view they have that point of view,” and carry on with your night, without making their opinions matter more than your own.

May I introduce you to the magic and freedom of allowance?

🔑 Here’s the thing about ALLOWANCE: It’s not about agreeing with someone. It’s about not making their judgment relevant to your reality.

Honestly, allowance is too much to even describe in this email, so go check out the free tool. It's a game-changer when it comes to handling judgment, opinions, and those moments where you want to either scream or shrink.

When you stop taking things personally, your entire world opens up.

💌 Stay tuned—your next email is about Gratitude: The Secret Sauce That Makes Relationships Thrive.

With gratitude and possibility,