Hello beautiful YOU!

Have you ever thought about how what you believe to be true becomes the presumptive reality from which you build your life from? And, what would truly be possible if you weren’t holding on so tightly to that point of view?

Let me give an example… You see, as a mom, the only reason I tried to stop my kids from “failing” was because I still believed in failure. That it was real and should be avoided.

But, what is “failure”? It’s a projection, based on expectations, a definition of an outcome not going a certain way.  However, I have to tell you, some of my most interesting choices I’ve made along the way in my life (aka, not generative choices) are ones that I learned a TON from.

When I actually realized that “failure” is a lie, an illusion we are taught to uphold and avoid at all costs, there was nothing more for me to intercept my kids from.  It totally changed the dynamic from which I could be with them.

Instead of trying to be out in front of them all the time attempting to create certain outcomes, I could walk next to them and let them know that I had their backs no matter what. And, remind them that they always get to choose again and create something new.

And, you know what? It’s way more enjoyable, and gives them the space to create their lives from a much more empowered place.

What if we could also be that for ourselves? I mean, have you actually acknowledged how much we are STILL parenting ourselves based on however we were raised? 

What can you now be for yourself that no one else ever was?

Are you making failure real?
Are you judging yourself for failing?
What other things are you upholding that you could now release?

If you’d like to dig in with me, I’ve got a couple of awesome possibilities coming up.