💌Hello, again!

Can we talk about that one thing (or things) your partner always does (or doesn’t do)? 😉

Maybe it’s leaving the toilet seat up.
Maybe it’s never refilling the water filter.
Maybe it’s piling clothes on “the chair” instead of putting them away.

You’ve reminded them, you’ve dropped endless hints. You’ve even tried making it a “fun little challenge” to see if they’d remember. 

But every day… boom. There it is. 

So, now what?
Do you:
💭 A) Keep reminding them (aka low-key campaigning for change).
💭 B) Get frustrated, start arguments and start wondering if this is a dealbreaker.
💭 C) Check in with yourself: Is this actually a problem… or is it just different than how I would do things?

It might seem like this isn’t related, but this is where trust comes in.

🔑 Here’s the thing about TRUST: it isn’t actually about someone doing what you want them to do. 

It’s about trusting that they will continue to choose what they’ve always chosen until they are ready to choose something different.

Instead of constantly fighting for them to meet your expectations, what if you let them be? What if, instead of waiting for them to change, you asked yourself: Does this actually matter? Is it a small thing that you can navigate with ease, or is it truly a non-negotiable?

When you stop hoping people will be different and start trusting what’s true, you get clarity. You can finally choose, rather than react.

So, where in your relationships are you waiting for someone to be different instead of trusting them to be who they are?

When you stop trying to control, your relationships (and your sanity) get way easier.

💌 Stay tuned—your next email is about Allowance: Letting Go Without Losing Yourself.

With gratitude and possibility,